How does flirt and hook up work - How does flirt and hook up work - Christa


"I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy. As I lost more weight and gained muscle mass, I began to notice a change in my looks. I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes. To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth. At least when I was a big guy, men were more interested in other aspects of me." —Erich, 24

a) you want to know that he likes you because knowing someone likes you feels good,
b) he is indifferent to you (in the romantic sense), but you want him to like you and you’re seeing what you want to see,
c) you don’t know whether or not he likes you, but you’d be open to starting something with him.

When you don’t know how a guy feels about you, then every moment you spend with him is filled with anxiety and doubt. How are you supposed to know how to act around him if you don’t know how he feels about you?


How does flirt and hook up work

How does flirt and hook up work